I have had some enquiries over the last few weeks in regards to personal slavery and here is some information to give an idea of what it entails. There are various types of ownership, for example, you can be a personal social media slave working hard to promote your Mistress online. If you live far away there is long distance servitude. The most special is the full time OWNED SLAVE.
I do not accept just anyone as a personal slave. The first and most important thing is CONNECTION. I must get on with you and be able, at the very least, to hold a fun and interesting conversation. How can you build a more intimate relationship with someone if you do not like them? One of My personal slaves was put through his paces and made to prove his worth over a long period of over 6 months. I must be able to see that you are serious about being owned and that you will not get bored or look elsewhere after the initial excitement wears off. If I am going to let you into My personal life, I do not have time for flakes and you must appreciate the great trust that comes with this role. you must be ready to engage in such a commitment otherwise it can end in great sadness.
What kind of things can a personal slave be involved in? The list is endless: chores, tasks, research, attending events, errands, driving and admin are some activities. The main aim of a personal slave is to make their Mistress’ life easier. Some Mistresses require their personal slave to tribute a large sum each month, I look at what the person can afford, their circumstances and, of course, how useful they can be to Me. My time is precious and it must be earnt in various ways: tasks, gifts, surprises, creativeness, readiness, etc. I give a lot of My time to My personal slaves so I expect that when I give them a task it is completed to the highest standard. That slave is being trained to be a reflection of ME and they must act accordingly.
A personal slave must show gratitude, be invisible (not wanting to show off their status all the time, it becomes boring) and be aware that Mistress will have contact with others – this should fuel you to want to do your best so you can be the favourite (not that She will ever tell you this ;)). You must prove your worth. If you are not giving Me what I need, you receive less of My time and you get rewards and punishments depending on the quality of effort with your work.
I set strict rules and a contract is signed at the beginning of the personal slavery journey. This contract can change over time to accommodate new skills learnt or changed circumstances. I do not allow my slaves to interact with other Mistresses unless pre-agreed, this fails the idea of being MINE and once you’re MINE, you should not wish to have anyone else on your mind.
I bet anyone who has considered being ‘owned’ has imagined being able to spend all day talking to their Mistress or seeing Her every day – this is not the case: Mistress still has a life to lead, sessions, commitments and Her personal life. Sometimes you will speak to Her daily and other times it may be a couple of times a week. If you become My personal slave you are absolutely more involved in My life, things become more ‘friendly’, more personal, but it is hard work. You will be required to be available when I need you but also have the ability to busy yourself when I am not free to spend time with you. You need to be motivated and creative and come up with ways to help your Mistress. And you need to WANT to be there. Never rush into ownership, make sure you are ready to commit to that one special Mistress. If not, wait, one day She will come along and turn your life around.
One of the main points when discussing ownership is that when a punishment is given, you take it and move on. If you have done something wrong, no matter how small, you need to be punished to learn. It is a long journey but the ultimate ending is to become Mistress’ special, ultimate slave who is the perfect reflection of Her hard work and status. This does not happen overnight, you must work tirelessly to get to know your Mistress, Her needs, desires, wants and they must be all you think about. Your aim in life is to make Her life better!
A note from an owned slave:
Being a personal slave is what i had dreamed of since the day i first fell into the world of BDSM. Being a personal slave is not something that should be taken lightly and is definitely not just a ‘fantasy’ for a sub to get his kicks. It also HAS to be with the right person and the Mistress you have a true connection with. For me i knew instantly the first time i met Mistress Courtney that She was the one i wanted to enter into slavery with and my dream was to become Her personal slave. So the day which is so crystal clear in my mind still that Mistress gave me my collar and accepted me as Her personal slave was and is so truly very special and one to be treasured forever.
As i mentioned before being a Personal slave is not about you as the submissive getting your kicks it’s ALL about Mistress and making sure you attend to all of Her needs and essentially doing all you can to make Mistresses life easier for Her. Being a personal slave does not mean Mistress keeps me chained and left in the dungeon 24-7 and beaten every hour (although of course if Mistress wanted to She of course could). Of course Mistress and i spend lots of time in the Dungeon for play/punishments/rewards but the main part of being a personal slave is the work you need to put in and you have to be prepared to do that. i have had days when i have had tasks coming out my ears and thought my head would explode but would i change anything ? Absolutely not. Being a personal slave make no mistake can be hard work but throughout that hard work what keeps me working hard for Mistress is the thought that at the end of my task or tasks i may get an email or text or call from Mistress saying ‘well done I am pleased with you’ as those magical words are all i strive for and it makes me very happy to know i have pleased Mistress.
If you are lucky enough to meet your dream Mistress and you are given the chance to prove your worth as Her personal slave, grab it with both hands show complete Devotion to your Mistress 24-7 and work so hard for Her.
It’s an amazing feeling
Miss Courtneys Personal slave
One of the tools I use to decide whether or not to consider a slaves application to be more involved in My l.ife as a personal slave, is essay writing. I love looking into a slaves mind, allowing them to be creative and also it gives the slave the opportunity to prove themselves. How do you think Slave ‘A’ did?
‘How I will submit to Mistress Courtney and please her”
Mistress Courtney, you are very special. You are beautiful, you have an amazing voice, and attitude and way of speaking and you are young and full of energy and authority. I dream to be kissing your beautiful leather boots and being dominated by you at home and in session. I want to buy you gifts that prove my own imagination – not just those on your list. I want to be kept on my toes and be teased and used for Mistress’ fun and advantage but in a sensual way that keeps me super-keen. My dream would be to feel that I am special to Mistress, she likes my attention but that she also wants to dominate me and make me look up to her and struggle/suffer.
There are many ways in which I will submit to you and I hope these will please you.
One of the most important aspects is attitude. I will at all times adopt an attitude that can be best described as a submissive and allow Mistress to control me. Central to this is that my own feelings and opinions come second to those of Mistress Courtney. I will please mistress for example by showing a positive, keen to please attitude as mistress teases and denies me and sending sensual gifts to her. Many slaves see boot worship as a punishment. I would like it to be a reward and a way of showing mistress my romantic side in how thoughtfully I kiss them.
My role will be to one of Mistress Courtney’s junior slaves. This will allow Mistress to have fun giving me training opportunities to get myself noticed by impressing her. The more junior and the prettier the slave boy the more cruelly they are treated by Mistress.
It is my duty to be made to wait for Mistress Courtney and give her the luxury of knowing that I will always wait keenly for Mistress. It pleases mistress to use this situation to her own ends so that she knows I am always there. I must show Mistress just the right balance of keenness and just the right balance of reserve.
Mistress has a hugely successful and busy lifestyle. As a beautiful Mistress she is greatly in demand. Her best slaves love and crave her yet realise they are just slaves and can never have a normal relationship with her. They compete with each other for her attention in many ways. I will be no different from this and mistress will expect the same high standards of behaviour and reserve. It pleases mistress just occasionally to tear up the rules and to give one of her slaves special privileges. It pleases mistress to bring such slaves back into line and throw them back into her dungeon. Only those who can maintain a positive attitude and gift Mistress survive and get noticed again.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step … Be brave, take that step.
Filming at a PAIN FARM in Treuenbrietzen, Germany: Saturday and Sunday, 9th and 10th of June ONLY.
• Flight to Schoenefeld or Berlin – you can get the train to Bruck (aprox 51 minutes from Berlin and 47 minutes from Schoenefeld). I will be hiring a car so I will have space for 2 people. I have looked briefly at flights and they are about £55 return – these are subject to change depending on where you live.
Themes for Filming:
- CBT, Ballbusting, Trampling
- Corporal Punishment
- Beat downs, Military Drills, Prisoner scenarios
- Humiliation, Face Slapping, Forced-Bi
- Electrics, Gadgets, Bondage
- Pony Play (The farm has proper stables!)
- Boot, Shoe, Heel, Foot Worship
Please note that there will hopefully be around 6 – 7 filming subs and you will be required to film with all Mistresses. There will be breaks and time to enjoy each other’s company. As always, I am open to suggestions but Lars and I have specific ideas we want to incorporate into the weekend and the scenes/scenarios we want to film. You can be involved in filming for both Merciless Dominas and I – we will both be filming separate scenes as well as scenes together. Two cameras going – what fun!
Other Mistresses attending: Mistress Flora, Lady Deluxe and SweetBaby – If you look at Merciless Dominas on FetLife you will see more details for the Mistresses attending: https://fetlife.com/users/3100403
You will be required to show a form of ID, sign model release documents and if you want to secure one of the beds at the farm, proof of your flight or an upfront deposit will be required.
If you are interested, please send an email to email@example.com or message Lars via Fetlife.
Miss C xx
In Chastity for Miss Courtney
One thing I have always fantasied about was being locked in chastity and handing over control of my cock. Locking myself was easy but I always went for the key after a couple of days. This defeating the object I searched for a key holder.
I stumbled across Miss Courtney’s website and after reading through it a few times decided this was it. I fired off an email politely asking Mistress if she would do me the honor of holding my key’s. She agreed and the rest is history.
November 2016 I was sat with my manhood unlocked and free. I decided I needed to be controlled again. I contacted Mistress and after a couple of messages we had agreed for my cock to return to the cage and to be controlled again.
We agreed to 4 weeks in Chastity throughout December. By mid-November I had decided I couldn’t wait and asked Mistress if we could add 2 weeks to the start of the time. Mistress quickly responded with a YES!!!. I made the most of the freedom then first thing on a Monday morning I put the cage on my cock and locked the device. Living the opposite side of the country from Mistress I sent the keys via post. This was it. I’m under Mistress’ control. I received a message from Mistress after a few days saying she had received the keys.
During the 6 week’s we’d agreed I kept in constant contact with Mistress. I could be out with friends or at work and a message would come from ordering a photo of her property. Who am I to say no to Mistress? As a thankyou I must send Mistress a few gifts. After a few week’s, I received a video from Mistress. I watching it I see Mistress wearing a latex dress I had purchased for her. She spends a minute or 2 teasing me.
Getting close to the end of the year and the release day is fast approaching. By now the cage is part of me and release doesn’t sound like an option. Time to contact my Mistress.
A medical at work was looming at the start of 2017 and the device wouldn’t help me there. We agreed for Mistress to send me a key on the grounds the device was removed on the morning of my medical and replaced asap. Once done I was to post the key back and send Mistress a photo of her locked property back where it belongs.
But how long will the device stay on?
I’m always eagerly watching Mistress waiting for her to announce tour dates in London. The dates came up and after contacting Mistress we arranged a session for February where I was to be released from my device.
Again, I was requested to send a photo of her locked property. I was also sent another video of Mistress teasing me. All the time watching these video’s I found my cock straining against the bars of the device. The video also ending with the controlling rhetorical question “will I unlock you?”.
Now we’re a matter of days away from me meeting the stunning Mistress Courtney and being able to serve her in person. The device will be coming off at the end of the week………..hopefully.
Mistress has also sent me a message hinting towards a vibrating plug which she could control regardless where we both are at the time. Being keen to please her I purchase one. This should keep me on edge a bit more and leave me more and more frustrated.
However….Me being keen to serve Mistress. I drop the crazy question. Should we play a little game which would see my sentence lengthened. Who knows what my fate will be.
Here we are, February 2017 and 4 weeks locked is now 12 weeks with the more week’s or even months on the cards.
Mistress, it is a pleasure to serve you. Your property is safely locked away under lock and key.
Chastity Sub Mike x
Breath Play – bit of a touchy subject for some, a look of confusion for others and for some of you, a twinge in your pants.
So, I am sitting in my massage chair at home with a glass of Bollinger and a little bit of a cold. Nope, unfortunately I am not super woman and the dreaded lurgy is trying to visit me but with my army of garlic, ginger and Night Nurse I am hoping that by tomorrow I will be 100 percent again 😉 So no glamorous evening out for me but I will make up for it soon…
It has given me time to reflect on my year though and wow, what a year. I do not think I could have anticipated all that happened (damn those super powers escape me again) but all I can say is that if 2017 is even nearly as eventful, I will be so happy. I try not to focus on negative things and even on sad or bad days I try and turn my day around with something as simple as noticing how pretty the sky is. As this year went on I felt more positive and very much ‘in the moment’. When I had a nervous, anxious feeling about doing something new I told myself, I would not be able to tell tales of my time when I am old and wrinkly, if I didn’t take a leap. When feeling tired, I asked myself if I would remember how tired I felt 2 weeks later. When receiving session requests that I was not overly excited about, I asked myself if I was a millionaire, would I take the booking? So this year for me, has been about exploration and personal growth. Establishing new boundaries, travelling and meeting new people (some I hope will remain great friends).
So a lot of you know, Princess Lucina means the world to me – she has always put her complete faith in me, allowed me to test idea’s, supports me and generally just accepts me as I am, which can cause her some amusement on my ‘stroppy days’. Also, if she doesn’t let me do something I do know where she lives… #Iwillbringtheshovel Being invited to the Stockport Dungeon is one of the best things that has happened to me and I am so grateful for it.
Another lady who has made a big impact on my life is Madame Caramel. The Hoxton Dungeon was recommended to me at the beginning of 2016 and (for those of you who know me well, you know my memory is not very good) I remember walking to the dungeon and when that door opened, I felt a sense of calm, assurance and positivity, I knew I had made the right choice. The advice and help MC has given has been wonderful and the laughs we have had are just divine.
I have met some wonderful Mistresses and friends this year but one of the main reasons I am even here is: the slaves, subs, kinksters (whatever you want to call yourselves). Now I will not name anyone specifically – this would be unfair – some slaves have gone down new paths although something was learnt from the times spent together. Some have stayed in my life throughout my whole Domme journey which makes me so happy – being able to watch someones BDSM journey and be a part of it is very special. There are also new ones, ones who I do not just see as a ‘client’ but ones who will have a big part in my life. Respect, generosity and enjoyable times – what more could I want? Good, bad and mediocre boys – thank you for following and being apart of my journey. Be warned in 2017, I will be even stricter with my time so you will have to tick all the boxes 😉
The travelling I have been able to do this year has been brilliant – Germany, South Africa, France, all over the UK – I have always loved travelling, growing up on a yacht sailing from South Africa to the Caribbean, I think I have missed going to new places. Next year I hope to do more. Mistress Chloe and I have a few ideas for tours in Ireland and Germany so keep your eyes pealed. I will of course be at the Hoxton Dungeon in London regularly and filming will restart perhaps the end of January. I loved filming with Kinky Mistresses and Merciless Dominas and hopefully there will be more in 2017. On my list of places I do have to tick off Romania, LA, Florida (to see my Latex Lara) and the Netherlands. I wonder where else I will end up… I do like an adventure…
Oh and the outfits – I have some of the most beautiful outfits, shoes (yay) and luckily lots of perfume (JM) – Looking through my now rather full wardrobes and 2 shoe cupboards gives me a tingle of excitement – I love things. I love beautiful, sexy, striking, elegant items and so enjoy showing them all off – I am sure there are no objections! Let us see what outfits and images I can put together (Cannot wait to see Purple Tog and Glamourshotz as well as some new ‘photo connections’) – Keep updated on my Twitter, Instagram and Tumblr.
So, bring on 2017… I cannot wait to see what the year brings me and for now I am going to watch Suicide Squad. I raise my glass to you all, have fun, be safe and remember to smile and laugh – Happy New Year!